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Why I am the perfect mom

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As if being a parent were not already fraught with enough pressure and judgement, the social media element just adds to the expectations which are already placed on the reproducing populace. I recall seeing the sanctimommy posts and various [insert random commentary on parenting] articles before I even fell pregnant. Since the expecting stage and now more than a year into the parenting stage, I encounter more and more parenting related posts on my social media newsfeed. This is in part due to the fact that I am involved in more parenting groups and have more friends that are parents, but I obviously also have those super smart analytic algorithms to thank for the fact that my internet page visits and searches get fed into Facebook to allow them to tailor content according to my interests.  Source So as opposed to just trying to be the best parent you can be for your child, you are now subjected to an unending list of standards to obtain (and maintain) and boxes to check in o